I took quite a break didn’t I? Forgive me. I was trying my hardest to stay alive in the period I was away. I am so happy to be back to blogging and I have a lot to share. The biggest reveal is that I AM HAVING ANOTHER BABY!!!!! It so funny how excited I sound in this post versus my real life reaction.
I hadn’t had my period in two months so I couldn’t say I knew I was pregnant the moment I didn’t locate my red monster plus I was busy with work as always so I didn’t have time to worry about being pregnant. UNTIL one day in January (after someone had mentioned my tummy was getting big and I had secretly cried and begged God to turn me to Beyonce) after all the madness that is my life had calmed down a little and I had a some space to think, I decided to finally take the pregnancy test I had bought 2 weeks before. I honestly though it will come back negative because I had taken 5 tests in those 2 months that all turned out negative, so I was feeling like a bad babe with sperm blocking powers because I was still winging it, the blood of Jesus was my contraceptive and really is there any better way.
I went into the pee pee house confident that it was not yet my portion to receive another child. I poured myself some wine then strolled back to check my obviously negative result and my sisters I was flabbergasted when I saw that it was positive. I laughed then I laughed then I cried then I started rolling on the floor Africa magic Yoruba style grabbing my hair screaming all these Yoruba words I didn’t know I knew. Timi (the husband) was excited, Kunmi just wanted juice and I was sad because It wasn’t in my plan to have a child this year at alllllll.
After they begged me to calm down I decided the pregnancy test was lying because it was cheap and only Clear Blue will tell me my real destiny so at 8:00 pm I got into the car and went to nearly every pharmacy in Lekki till I found Clear Blue and obviously I was still pregnant.
So here I am reluctantly pregnant and surviving, this pregnancy hasn’t been as horrible as my first but it comes with it own flavour and I will let you guys know how its been going post after post.
Do you have any survival tips? How did you react when you found out you were pregnant the first, second, third time? Drop a comment below and if you would like to talk about anything you can email me firstname.lastname@example.org